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Live Out Loud Newsletter- Finding Warmth in the Cold: The Power of Relationships and Resilience

Volume 34-Finding Warmth in the Cold: The Power of Relationships and Resilience

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January 22, 2025

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Editor’s Note: The Power of Meaningful Relationships

Greetings, Live Out Loud family!

Atlanta has been giving us surprises lately—snow, twice in two weeks! Can you believe it? For a city not accustomed to such frosty weather, it has been quite an adjustment. But with the cold, I’ve also been reminded of the warmth we can find in meaningful relationships, especially when life throws curveballs.

Last week, I experienced one of those “everything-happens-at-once” moments. First, the drive belt on my garage door broke, leaving me to open and close my garage manually. Now, let me tell you—this isn’t just any garage door; it’s a heavy wooden door, and while I wouldn’t trade its charm for the world, it’s no easy task to lift!

Then, on one of the coldest days Atlanta has seen in years (below 32 degrees), I received a call from one of my tenants. Her heat wasn’t working, and to make matters worse, the washing machine in her unit had broken again—less than two months after I fixed it.

At that moment, I felt completely overwhelmed. I didn’t know how I would fix everything, especially after-hours. In a panic, I called my sister-friend Giselle, hoping she could lend me a listening ear. Not only did she listen, but she also reminded me to breathe and told me she was on her way to help. Giselle, a licensed general contractor, arrived with a contractor-grade heater that warmed the entire unit, giving my tenant much-needed relief.

Here’s the kicker—Giselle lives an hour away, but by a stroke of divine timing, she was only 10 minutes away when I called. It was as if the universe aligned to remind me of the power of meaningful relationships and how important it is to utilize your network in times of need.

The Lesson: Lean Into Your Network

This experience was a reminder that we are not meant to do life alone. Often, we carry burdens thinking we must solve everything by ourselves, but there’s incredible power in asking for help. Your network—friends, family, or colleagues—may hold the exact resource, skill, or encouragement you need to get through a challenge.

So, here’s my encouragement to you this month:

  1. Nurture Your Relationships: Invest time in building and maintaining meaningful connections. You never know when they’ll become your lifeline.

  2. Ask for Help: It’s not a sign of weakness but of strength to admit when you need support.

  3. Be the Helper When You Can: Just as Giselle showed up for me, look for opportunities to show up for others.

As we reflect on the new year and all the challenges and triumphs it may bring, let’s remember that we are stronger together. May you find and cherish your own “Giselle”—or better yet, be one for someone else.

Until next time, stay warm, stay connected, and stay empowered.

With love and light,
Mechel Miller,
Founder, Live Out Loud

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This Week’s Edition Features:

  • Editor’s Note: The Power of Meaningful Relationships (1.5 minute read)

  • Feature Story: Sisterhood in Action: How Relationships Can Empower and Uplift (2.0 minute read)

  • Good Health/ Wellness Spotlight: Resetting Your Mindset and Raising Your Vibration (2.5 minute read)

  • RadiantHER: RadiantHER Lifestyle Hub: The Wait is Nearly Over! (1.5 minute read)

  • Skill Builder: Setting Healthy Boundaries (2.5 minute read)

  • Soul Serenity Retreat Reminder: "Reserve Your Spot for the Soul Serenity Retreat 2025" (1 minute read)

  • Forward to a Friend: "Share the Gift of Growth – Forward This Newsletter to a Friend" (.1 minute Read)

Feature Article: Sisterhood in Action: How Relationships Can Empower and Uplift

In a world where independence and self-reliance are often celebrated, the truth remains: we are stronger together. The relationships we nurture, especially among women, have the power to not only uplift us in times of crisis but also empower us to reach greater heights.

Last week, I was reminded of the incredible impact of sisterhood when my sister-friend Giselle came to my rescue. But this isn’t just about my story—this is about the countless moments when women show up for each other, not just as friends but as a network of support, wisdom, and strength.

Did you know that studies show strong social connections are linked to better physical health, increased happiness, and even longer life expectancy? This shouldn’t come as a surprise; when we lean on each other, we gain perspective, reduce stress, and find solutions we couldn’t see on our own.

A Practical Call to Action:
How can you build and utilize a sisterhood like this in your own life? Here are three actionable steps:

  1. Cultivate Relationships with Intent: Look for opportunities to strengthen connections with the women in your life. Reach out, check in, and be present.

  2. Create a Circle of Support: Join communities that foster growth and connection, like the Live Out Loud Sisterhood. This is a space where women come together to inspire, uplift, and empower one another—because life is better when we do it together.

  3. Celebrate Your Network: Gratitude goes a long way. Celebrate the friends and mentors who have helped you along the way, and pay it forward whenever you can.

Conclusion:
As you reflect on your network, ask yourself: Who can I reach out to today? Who might need my support right now? Let this be the year we all lean into the power of meaningful relationships.

Good Health/Wellness Spotlight: Resetting Your Mindset and Raising Your Vibration

We often hear about the importance of changing our mindset, but how do we move past surface-level attempts to truly renew our minds? I’m here to tell you that actively participating in the process of mindset renewal works—and I’ve seen it transform my life.

One of the tools I’ve been using is Catherine Ponder’s The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity. In the third quarter of 2024, I shared some insights from this book, and now it’s time to revisit these teachings and apply them practically. Let’s focus on Chapter 10: The Prosperity Law of Imaging and The Prosperity Law of Praise, two powerful principles that can help you reset your mindset and begin experiencing real change.

1. The Prosperity Law of Imaging

Summary:
This law emphasizes the power of visualization. By creating clear, mental images of what you desire, you begin to draw those things into your reality. Visualization works because the mind cannot distinguish between imagined and real experiences—it simply acts upon the dominant images it holds.

Practical Application:

  • Morning Visualization Practice: Spend 5 minutes each morning visualizing your goals as if they are already achieved. For example, if you’re seeking financial prosperity, imagine yourself paying bills with ease, feeling abundant, and giving generously.

  • Create a Vision Board: Compile images, words, or symbols that represent your desires and place them somewhere visible. Look at it daily and connect emotionally with the images.

  • Affirmation: "I see myself enjoying abundant prosperity and living a life of fulfillment. My mental images create my reality."

2. The Prosperity Law of Praise

Summary:
This law teaches that whatever you praise and give gratitude for expands in your life. When you focus on what’s good and working well, even more of it flows into your life. Gratitude creates an energetic shift that raises your vibration.

Practical Application:

  • Daily Gratitude Journal: Write down three things you are thankful for each day. They can be as simple as a warm cup of tea or as significant as a job promotion.

  • Praise Others: Compliment someone or express genuine appreciation for their efforts. The act of praising others attracts positivity back into your life.

  • Affirmation: "I praise and give thanks for all the good in my life. Gratitude opens the door to endless blessings."

Why These Laws Work

How many times have you created or changed a reality based on something you thought of in your mind? You might be wracking your brain and saying to yourself, “I’ve never done that before.” But let me tell you—oh, you absolutely have.

Here’s a simple example: Think back to a time when you really wanted something, like a new dress, purse, or pair of shoes. You didn’t just want it—you visualized it. You imagined how it would look with a certain outfit, what shoes would pair perfectly with it, and maybe even how others would compliment you on your fabulous choice. You might have gone so far as to open your favorite shopping website, placed the item in your cart, and clicked "buy" after carefully entering your card details.

If timing was critical, maybe you planned the delivery so you could intercept the package before your significant other saw it. You even crafted in your mind the perfect explanation—just in case you got caught before having the chance to fully justify your purchase. Every detail of this scenario played out in your thoughts before it became reality.

That’s the power of imaging in action—creating a mental blueprint of your desire and taking steps to bring it to fruition.

But here’s the twist: If you’re not careful, negative thoughts can derail this process. Perhaps you started second-guessing yourself, thinking, “It’s too expensive, so I can’t afford it,” or “My significant other will be upset if I spend this much.” When those thoughts creep in, they create mental roadblocks, shifting your focus from possibilities to limitations.

The outcome—whether you got the item or not—was determined solely by your thoughts and mental imagery.

The Takeaway

This example demonstrates why the Law of Imaging and the Law of Praise are so powerful. They help you consciously guide your thoughts toward what you want instead of what you fear or doubt. When you align your thoughts with positive imagery and gratitude, you empower yourself to create the reality you desire.

How We Can Support You:

At Live Out Loud, we believe in the power of community and self-care. If you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure of your next steps, our programs and resources are here to help you find clarity, strength, and peace. From live wellness workshops to mindset coaching, we’re here to guide you on your journey toward healing and thriving. Remember, you’re not alone, and you are stronger than you think.

Looking for more personalized guidance? Click HERE to Unlock your personalized wellness journey by scheduling a FREE 15 minute session with me today! Together, we’ll create a holistic self-care plan tailored to your unique goals.

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With excitement and anticipation,
Mechel & the RadiantHER Team

Skill Builder: Set Yourself Up for Success in 2025

This Week’s Skill: Setting Healthy Boundaries

Overview:
One of the most effective ways to manage your time and protect your energy is by setting healthy boundaries. Boundaries allow you to prioritize your needs and goals while avoiding burnout or resentment. They help you say “yes” to what truly matters and “no” to what doesn’t serve your higher purpose.

When you master the skill of setting boundaries, you take control of your schedule, relationships, and overall well-being.

Step-by-Step Practical Application:

  1. Define Your Priorities:

    • Take a moment to identify what’s most important in your life—your values, goals, and non-negotiables.

    • Example: If spending quality time with family is a priority, you may need to say “no” to last-minute work commitments that interfere with that.

  2. Identify What’s Draining You:

    • Reflect on areas where you feel overextended or resentful. These are often signs that boundaries need to be set.

    • Example: Are you taking on too many tasks at work? Are you saying “yes” to social events out of obligation rather than joy?

  3. Communicate Clearly and Kindly:

    • When setting boundaries, use respectful but firm language. Be direct without over-explaining.

    • Example: “I’d love to help with this project, but my schedule is full right now. Let’s revisit this another time.”

  4. Stick to Your Boundaries:

    • Once you’ve communicated your boundaries, honor them consistently.

    • Avoid bending them to avoid discomfort—it only leads to frustration later.

  5. Evaluate and Adjust:

    • Periodically check in with yourself to ensure your boundaries are serving you. Adjust them as your needs and priorities change.

Affirmation for Success:
"I honor my time and energy by setting healthy boundaries that align with my values and goals."

Call to Action:
Setting boundaries is an act of self-respect and empowerment. This week, choose one area of your life where a boundary needs to be set and take action.

For more guidance on managing your time and energy, visit the She Evolves section of RadiantHER and explore tools designed to help you thrive.

RadiantHER’s "She Evolves" section is designed to help you build transformative skills like setting boundaries, managing time, and nurturing personal growth.

Here’s what you’ll find:

  • Techniques for boundary-setting to create balance and protect your energy.

  • Tools for personal growth to align your actions with your values.

  • Inspiring resources to empower your confidence and resilience.

Pre-register for RadiantHER today and explore "She Evolves" along with other transformative resources for personal growth.

Take control of your boundaries and your life—starting today!

Soul Serenity Retreat 2025: Secure Your Spot Before It’s Gone!

If you've ever dreamed of escaping to paradise while renewing your spirit, this is your moment—but it’s slipping away fast! The Soul Serenity Retreat 2025 is happening May 14–18, 2025, in the stunning setting of Playa Del Sol Resort, Belize, and spaces are filling up quickly. Click HERE to Learn More

Picture yourself unwinding on serene beaches, snorkeling in crystal-clear waters, and connecting with a community of like-minded women—all while experiencing a life-changing transformation in one of the world’s most breathtaking locations.

Secure your spot for the Soul Serenity Retreat in Belize! This year’s retreat will focus on reflect, refocus, renew, reach, and reinforce. Activities include:

  • Welcome Reception & Local Appetizers

  • Private Island Group Photo Shoot

  • Healing Remedies with Ms. Aurora

  • Snorkeling & Fishing Adventures

  • Farewell Dinner with Garifuna Drummers

💰 Deposit: $250 to reserve your spot.

🌟 Why You Can’t Miss This Retreat:

  • Recharge in a luxurious setting with like-minded women.

  • Gain clarity on your life goals and intentions.

  • Experience local culture and traditions that will leave a lasting impact.

Let this be the year you pour into yourself!

Here’s what Nina B. had to say about her 2022 experience at the Dubai Emirates retreat:

Since attending the Dubai retreat in 2022, Nina has continued to apply the lessons she gained during her time of reflection, reimagining, and reinvention. Over the last two years, she has launched a new business, deepened her personal relationships, and embraced a more balanced, purpose-driven life. The retreat wasn’t just a moment of clarity—it became the catalyst for lasting transformation. Nina says, "The tools and mindset shifts I gained at the retreat still guide me daily, helping me navigate challenges and stay focused on my goals."

Deposits of $250 are due now to reserve your spot. This is your chance to step away from your everyday responsibilities and invest in your well-being. Space is limited, so don’t wait!

Click HERE to Learn More

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